One of the benefits of Collaborative divorce is the team approach to problem solving and support. I am often asked something along the lines: “How do I know that the assembled team will work together for my benefit and not just step on each other’s toes, slow things down, or waste my money?” While […]

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I have a tree in my front yard that has become taller than any other. It is a Chinese Redwood given to me by my father as only a sapling in honor of our shared love and wonder about the mystifying nature of a Redwood grove. It is hard to miss. But, there are times that I notice […]

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The more I am confounded by life, the more I try to rely on Eric Fromm’s words:  “Love is the only sane and satisfactory answer to the problem of human existence.” Wait!  Find a way to love my spouse as I divorce?   Love is more than an attachment to another person. It is an […]

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